Is Your Boyfriend Using You?
Emili (from The Lance Temptation) could have saved herself a LOT of grief had she taken this little boyfriend quiz. If any of you are struggling with a relationship, maybe you can save yourself some pain.
Answer the following questions yes or no:
1. Does your boyfriend want you to himself most of the time?
2. Is he unusually quiet around you?
3. Does he pay more attention to other girls than to you?
4. Does he avoid making your relationship “official”?
5. Does your boyfriend pressure you to go farther than you want?
6. Does he ignore your feelings?
7. Do you sometimes feel trapped?
8. Are you often unhappy?
9. Do you ever wonder whether your boyfriend really likes you?
10. Do you spend time justifying his behavior so it doesn’t seem so bad?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, it might be time to reassess your relationship. Talk with someone you trust (someone older than you is often a good idea). You are in control of your life and you can decide whether your relationship is healthy and nurturing.
As Emili learned the hard way, never sell yourself short! And never settle for less than you deserve!
Read about Emili in both The Lance Temptation and Along Came Jordan.
Answer the following questions yes or no:
1. Does your boyfriend want you to himself most of the time?
2. Is he unusually quiet around you?
3. Does he pay more attention to other girls than to you?
4. Does he avoid making your relationship “official”?
5. Does your boyfriend pressure you to go farther than you want?
6. Does he ignore your feelings?
7. Do you sometimes feel trapped?
8. Are you often unhappy?
9. Do you ever wonder whether your boyfriend really likes you?
10. Do you spend time justifying his behavior so it doesn’t seem so bad?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, it might be time to reassess your relationship. Talk with someone you trust (someone older than you is often a good idea). You are in control of your life and you can decide whether your relationship is healthy and nurturing.
As Emili learned the hard way, never sell yourself short! And never settle for less than you deserve!
Read about Emili in both The Lance Temptation and Along Came Jordan.